[TPIN] Difficult Band Member

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Message: 8
Date: Wed, 1 Aug 2007 22:55:38 -0500
From: <jontrimble at suddenlink.net>
Subject: Re: [TPIN] Difficult Band Member
To: "Fraser Hutchinson" <fraserh at comcast.net>,  "'D. Michael McIntyre'"
    <michael.mcintyre at rosegardenmusic.com>, <tpin at tpin.okcu.edu>
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The thing is, he's a good section player that I would not hesitate to hire
on a gig. I am not looking to replace him.\

What would you guys do?

Thanks!

Fraser
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

How good he plays is really not the issue, yet it is easy to
include that aspect into the discussion - it's hard to keep
it out.  The issue is his attitude and behavior, and how that
ultimaltely and profoundly affects others, and this should
NOT become a case of you taking the "just shrug it off"
approach.  I know only FAR TOO WELL that allowing a place 
within a group for someone with divisive behavior is truly a case of
sowing seeds of destruction.  A person who does this is displaying
antisocial behavior, and it's much better to work with a positive
person who may not be as fine a player, becasue THAT kind of person
can learn, can listen, can be encouraged to improve - whereas the
know-it-all already knows everything and has nowehre to go
in their betterment...so invite them to leave.

Please post this to TPIN, along with any response you may have,
becasue my aol system doesn't let me post.  I think it has
some hyper-spam filters.  MA explained it and recommended that
I set up a Yahoo account.  Thank you!

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